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"How can I help a loved one?" is the question of those seeing a relative, friend or partner go through a difficult moment (illness, mourning, depression, work, separation) and wondering how to be useful without invading or aggravating. The cards do not offer diagnoses, but help read the most adequate type of support.
Six of Pentacles and the Hierophant indicate balanced support, generous but not invasive. The Star suggests calm closeness and rebuilding trust. Strength reminds that sometimes helping means staying without wanting to immediately solve. The Devil signals affective dependence of the helper (you also have a need behind that "wanting to help"). Five of Cups speaks of an ongoing mourning to respect with silent presence.
Listening without judgment is almost always the first need. Open questions ("what would help you today?") are more useful than unsolicited advice. Concrete practical help (groceries, accompaniment, a meal, a walk) is worth a lot. Respect timing and accept a "no" when it comes. Take care of yourself so as not to collapse together.
They indicate the style of support (listening, presence, distance, action). Concrete actions you build, knowing the person.
It is a serious signal. Who helps also needs limits, rest and sometimes a third reference person.
Only if they are able to participate consciously. In many cases a personal reading is better, to understand how you want to be there.