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"What boundaries should I set in family?" is a mature question: it arises when you notice that certain family patterns empty you, take autonomy or make you feel used. Setting boundaries does not mean breaking: it means protecting what you care about in a healthy way. The cards can help see where boundaries are missing and with whom.
The Emperor and Justice speak of clear rules. Four of Wands tells of a healthy domestic space. The Devil signals dynamics of dependence or emotional blackmail. Five of Wands shows chronic tensions not to suffer passively. Strength indicates the quality of gentle but firm "no". The Sun offers a path of clarity in the family system.
Identify the specific behaviors (not people) that weigh on you. Declare them with clear first-person sentences ("I need...", "I can no longer..."). Support the boundary with coherence (even facing induced guilt). Seek external allies (therapy, groups, trusted friends). Boundaries are not war: they are care of the relationship, because the relationship almost always improves after setting them.
Yes. It means recognizing your value and protecting the relationship quality.
Guilt is often an automatic reaction to change. Resist, talk to someone outside the family system, remember why you set the boundary.
In some cases yes, especially if the relationship is violent or deeply toxic. Not alone: with support.